Are these trashy girls the new standard of being attractive?

I'm 23 and I think that many people who have not reached maturity feel that the only way to be attractive is to show their "goodies" in provocative ways or to be seen with someone who is provocative. When maturity sets in, people realize that being provocative is just trying to hide emotional wounds of insecurity. The sad thing is that others see that insecurity and either choose not to be around it or use it to their advantage. The media and lack of maternal guidance is to blame in my opinion (not saying that its the case with your granddaughter, but just the idea of attractiveness has changed this way). What is y, you discover when you mature, is confidence and mystery. Those are the people that you want to attract and be around. Men love the chase because without the chase and mystery, what's the point? The challenge is too easy for them and they either give up or end up cheating.